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Chapter 5.Roles of Family member

Hi. Any member of the family has a role to upbring a family. These members can be good or bad sometimes. As the children grow,will adopt the stance of the family such as attitude in the family and outside.If other members are bad mouthed,obviously they will take the sides. This can be detrimental to the growth of the children. There's a general belief of which is not always true that the parents will die first.Those negative thoughts make some children to misbehave.Some even positioned themselves as entitlement. Naturally, some say if you are a first born you have a  right to control your siblings. Just like a last born is entitled to get the residency. A girl child who is first is got limited rights. The manner which we bring children affect our communities too. Just take a child who grew under hatred and become a general of the army Imagine she is nurse,social worker,baby sitter and so on.Some of the problems emanate from upbringing. The tone of the language is ...

Chapter 4.A Modern Family

A Modern Family A Modern Family expects to have money,shelter,prosperous job and make a lot of good friends. Hopes of a Modern families 1.To have a good education. 2.To find a paying job as soon as possible. 3.To find a right partner. 4.To be successful in life. 5.Travelling around. Problems of a modern families.

Chapter 3.How do other families live

Hi I define a family value at the way of life, beliefs of particular family. Some families have their own identity. Here are the examples: 1.Family business 2.Family professionals 3.Family  of beggars 4.Family of Politicians 5.Family of Royals 6.Family of Rituals 1.Family business The family members  are in charge of the business. In order to be progressive, some skills are imparted to generation to generation. It started as a dream, vision of one person who united the family and passed from generation to generation. Most of these business with stood the time. 2.Family Professional Here,like ourselves my grandfather was a principal, my mother was a teacher,my brother is a principal, my brother's  wife is a teacher. Some families are lawyers,medical doctors. These families are united by two factors: 1.bloodlines 2.professionalism 3.Family beggars I know of few families who don't like to work.The children are "skilled" beggars. They are posted to...

Chapter 2.Yourself in the family

1.What kind of family do u belong? 1.traditional 2.modern 3.I don't know 2.Who was the head of your family 10 yes ago? Your... 1.Father 2.Mother 3.Brother/relative/somebody 3.Who is the head of your family now? Your... 1.Father 2.Mother 3.Brother/Relative/Yoursely 4.Do u have family meetings? 1.Yes we do. 2.Sometimes 3.No 5.What do you normally discuss in your meetings? 1.welfare & economy 2.welfare 3.economy 6.Do u reach consensus? 1.Yes we do 2.Sometimes 3.No 7.Do u see the need of family unity? 1.Yes I do. 2.Sometimes. 3.No 8.Do you  have any future plan of unity? 1.Yes 2.Sometimes 3.No 9.Do u help each  other when u are in trouble? 1.Yes 2.Sometimes 3.No 10.How does your family help each other? 1.Any help. 2.Finances 3.Not at all

Chapter 1.Family values.

Hi. A family is an institution of any living being.Lions have their own family values. When they attack, cubs,lioness,uncles all attack and benefit from the food. When a male pulls a carcass to the camp cubs are given preference and later the lioness is allowed. Broken families are producing broken values.The family role changes from generation to generation There are challenges nowadays which faces the families. In order to survive certain family members must be able to: 1.work 2.produce money 3.have shelter 4.have future 5.have children The man or husband is expected to lead. I'm going to bring some roles in the family. The families will be discussed as traditional modern,urban,rural present or previous centuries. The time we live in shapes up. Our belief,behavior, economy and our in this world. Your position in your family is very important. As I did in the previous blogs,there will be surveys. Those surveys and analysis will help you to understand why t...