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Tips of Marriage

She would like more arguements.The "superiority" of her Dad haunts her.Her implanted nature is -She lost a trust to Men. _She would not like to be "controlled" -She's got a revenge and avenge to all the men. Marrying from a Cluster -She/He does not forget where he/she comes from. - A loyal amount is send to her/his family openly or secretly or both. -The first 10 years is tough until his/her siblings become financial independent. -To her/his family is an insurance. Marrying from the balanced families. -It is logic and safe to marry a Person from the same level. Briefly,the educated should marry an educated person. Cross culture may be good or bad just like marrying a person of the same origin including same language. A Divorcee should marry the Divorced.

Family composition

There should be compromise  for both families if they want to succeed in their relationship.Let me bring perhaps the forgotten type of the family which you are married to.You belong to one of the following family: 1.Unique  Marriages Family Cross: Marrying a bridegroom from bride's single mother Family. What do you expect? -Too much saving. -A bride dictates .This happened after a year. -unleashing anger if the main promise has not been fulfilled like not buying a house or a car or living from hand to mouth -Too much consultation from the family and friends. Marrying a groom from bridegroom single mother Family -Too much suspicions like why you don't come at home at specific time.You are even about the type of friends you have -She wants a total "new Life". _she believes that she is totally free. Marrying a bridegroom from a single Dad -His father was his role model. -She wants that his family must live like his Dad _Sporadic violence if reasoning fails. _He is a Woma...

Which type of family do you belong to,

You either belonged to a single parent family or both parents family or single cluster family where you have 8 to 20 singles or you were adopted or from orphanage.I'm saying this so that you can have a better understanding of your partner.There are other ignored families which are the Poor and the Rich families or Moderate families. The siblings of the above mentioned families are not the same since they were not  brought in the same way.The "Cross marriage" are usually problematic.At the beginning Only Love is blind. 1.1 Single Parent.                                                  A Single mum will exert responsibility over Love.She is ever inquisitive,contact.She is ever protective. 1.2 Single Dad.                                            ...

Family morbid

It is very rare that one acts or behaves contrarily to his/her family.Thats why in your spouse relationship you have to compromise lot and work on  a complete background. Sometimes only one  part compromises and that it reminds me of egg or bacon relationship.A Chicken survives after giving an egg but a pig should die in order to bacon.The two relationships have certain levels of pain.The worse one is the pig. Love is not a written contract or  a specific mathematical formula or perhaps those who were not good in maths but good in English.  Marriage requires simply understanding.    You will find that the spouse take an advantage and label the partner a fool.In street language we say he/she is a soccer ball you which you kick it in your direction.This results to dismay which is brewed by finance,highest degree of disrespect and all other forms of exploitation. Usually the children suffer most because the home atmosphere is full of negative vibes. All these ...

Family Institution

God created the family Institution.A good family is likely to produce good citizens.As I mentioned before a loose family cause crime and disturb the economy. Families are not the same.The bringing up of their siblings is not the same.Greed or no Greed starts from the lower level.Pride may destroy the family.The strong religion may build or to a certain extent destroy the family. I become worried when I see the broken families or single units.The exchanging of roles financial and other responsibilities may swing the pendulum. Since we have such problems, what should we do?                                                                    In order to have a good family,you must be surrounded by positive people some even say positive spirits.The good friends will guide you to success you and your family. I still maintain ...

What to expect next time?

I have produced a number of series.Here are the summaries which you will get and please pass it to the person who you know or not know.Its a valuable information: 1.Family Institution.                                            Explanation the role of the family.                  2.Family morbid.                                                  What causes the family problems?                   3.Which type of family do you belong to?     3.1 Single Mother Family.                                     3.2.Single Dad family.         ...