Family Values

I have said many times the family is the institution.It actual prepares us for the  outside world in the following stages: 0-5 years We are taken by our families like security, food and shelter. 0-6 years The school years starts.Sometimes it starts from 4 to 5 years.It is when the  contact of  outside world starts from peer to peer. 7-12 years As the years passby the child is exposed to move circle people.Police,Clinics in nurses, bigger shops or mall.The experience. 13-20 years You will meet other  people  who come from other families brought in different ways.The spirit of tolerance and accommodation is supposed to be taught at home. 21 and Above At this time you an adult. You know of family you want.

I once, visited  a castle of  Ants near the River.As I went nearer and touched the twig my hand was severely attacked.  I guess those black  ants had a poison. My skin is dark and immediately 1 had red Spots. I was able to move some ants but the two red spots became more and more  visible. I suspect they had a poison. Which  lessons did I learn  from their home? 1.Unity 2.As I partially break the castle,there were "rooms" 3.The Castle was  built out of mud. 4.Protection What about we humans ? 1.Some family  are not united. 2.The Ants "filled" their rooms on their own while we humans look for someone to buy   furniture  and fill for us. 3.Everyone contributed in building  the Castle. 4.The  Ants protected their "homestead" with  jealousy  5.Everyone was responsible for protect  6.The Ants were busy going up and down

The Families  were united which translated   to the country  unity.There were very few countries  which were greedy. Lets find out about the today's families: 1.Broken Families. 2.Economy misery 3.Cultural & Traditional  bonds broken. 4.Interference of technology. 5.Churches are no more caring 1.Broken Families  The rate of divorce is very high. Each couple regrets why they marry. 2.Economy misery The Economy  is down and it affects our job and finances.People are failing to just the present  circumstances. 3.Cultural & Traditional  bonds broken Nowadays there's nothing which binds the family.The Head of family  does not respect the family culture 4.Interference  of Technology The Media is bringing the tendency of free living freedom in a wrong  way. 5.Churches  are no more caring  Churches are no more caring for the poor and the family sessions  have decreased

I sat down  and watched other families attitudes towards the neighborhood and around the communities. What I have discovered? 1.Good Families  2.Bad Families  3.Rude Families  1.Good Families  There are self respecting families. The main indicators are humble children, greeting with respect. 2.Bad Families  These are disgraced families. Children drink liquor in front of strategies. Again these give a question about their families.These families are either loose families or no formal education. 3.Rude Families  Everyone is rude here. From the parent to the child,grand child. They disrespect everybody who they know and don't know. Some of their  members are jailbird. Actually they are not fit to stay with  communities.

If you look at the animals  are raised up in the same way.A Lion Family teaches their family to attack herbivores skillfully if they want food.The skills  of hiding, moving, eyeing the food. What I have gathered also the Lions  eliminate any Tiger in their sight.The painful side is that the cubs found with the Lioness will be killed.The male lion cannot raise  the "step cubs" With us the human beings,we are influenced by our Culture,family  habits which differ from family to family.The  Question of Finance. There also "dangerous families "in the communities.Such families rob,commit murder and abuse the members of their Communities.

There are three types   of families: 1.Common Behaviour Family  2.Semi Behaviour  Family  3.Loose Family  4.Family Saviour 1.Common Behaviour  Family It is either  they are religious,cultural, criminal or educated.So this type  of family is got a certain way of living  which is homogeneous. 2.Semi Behaviour Family  The family may be divided into two ideological,cultural,material wise or even self-esteem.Their unit is diverse. 3.Loose Family This type of family ,everyone do what he/ she likes.You will find  a family member  leaving early in the morning and coming late in the evening.No one cares.No one ask any question. 4.Family Saviour One member become a voluntarily  or involuntarily  sacrificial lamb.This Saviour helps the family   either  financially,food or any emergency.They can  be in a group or individual. 5.Family  Troublemaker  This one steals,break houses,kills people in th...

Such a Person becomes a nuisance to the Community,Relatives,at Work,Government, Friends if any. Community  This Person believes  that is ever right and is got a vengeance  and revenge of which may be the Community  is directly or indirectly responsible  of. Relatives No one belongs from the  space. We either see that Person as a "Refugee" but the common sense there is or was a Family which he/she belong to. At Work Laziness,Arrogance,Jealousy  are the fruits of the Person  who avoided a family. Some prospective  Employers put a questionnare about the family background  about the  Employee. Government  The strategy  lies,bad mood, undermining, having secretive  deals all being active once one comes to Government.