Family Values

What do you do when your family goes nuts? It may happen that the whole family is against you alone or you are two groups in the family or even three groups undermining each other or hating each other or sworn each other. Let's see what you can do: 1.When you are Alone versus the whole group just stay away from them before you  more hurt or even killed.It is better not to communicate to them.If it does happen do it once per year or  in funeral times or stay at the back in ceremonies times. Don't be Father Christmas or Mother Teresa.Even if you can help them,you will remain an "enemy". 2.When you belong to one group. Obviously there are unwritten rules. Find the true characters in your group because when there is a "sellout" who blows fire,then the division will be perpetuated. 3.Three groups Obviously there will be a strong group and the weakest group.Find out from these groups which has the least common values try to bring some of  the members to your group...

Originally, families were the institutions of love, unity and empowerment.In this Century that had become an opposite.It also depends where you come from,the family composition and it's foundation plays a big role to your life. Some of the family problems practice carry over to the children and generations especially when you live in the same area. Some problems are underground from even from the parents and relatives of which some are  open and sworn.This disunity starts from the early ages where sometimes is passed down by the parents to their children with an aim of fearing their unity which may jeopardize their future grip. There is also another type who want unity in the family so that they can protect the "weak' or vulnerable ones so that the parents and others within their circles can benefit.Anyone who goes out of this line will  be "punished" and disowned. When you progress in front of your family members the following jealous  may erupt 1.because of you...