Families of the 20th Centuries

Originally, families were the institutions of love, unity and empowerment.In this Century that had become an opposite.It also depends where you come from,the family composition and it's foundation plays a big role to your life.

Some of the family problems practice carry over to the children and generations especially when you live in the same area.
Some problems are underground from even from the parents and relatives of which some are  open and sworn.This disunity starts from the early ages where sometimes is passed down by the parents to their children with an aim of fearing their unity which may jeopardize their future grip.


There is also another type who want unity in the family so that they can protect the "weak' or vulnerable ones so that the parents and others within their circles can benefit.Anyone who goes out of this line will  be "punished" and disowned.

When you progress in front of your family members the following jealous  may erupt
1.because of your Achievements
2.because of Family Historical Disunity of which some of them occurred when even you were not born.
3.because of the "sins"  of your bloodlines.
4.because  of Wrong perceptions that you think that you are    "better" than others.

What  your Family/Relatives/Friends can do to you?
1.In Africa and South America you can even be witched openly or secretly.
2.In America Criminals might be send to vandalize your property or even burn your house or your car.
3.In Europe backbiting to neighbours,
colleagues especially in your business or you are working.

On weekend Saturday or Sunday,I shall bring to you:
What can you do when your family goes nuts against to you.
The topic will be: When your Family goes Nuts!

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