Family Values

We all belong to a Big Family of humanbeings. 1.Like  it or not your relative are getting the Government Grants. 2.These are not the Government money,it belonged to us the Taxpayers.The food, cars, houses,roads we are paying some money which is called Tax. 3.So,there is no FREE money. 4.The subsidy is paid  by the Taxpayer. A Taxpayer helps in lowering the Crime. More Police is hired. We are a Big Family,Family of Taxpayer.

What do you do when your family goes nuts? It may happen that the whole family is against you alone or you are two groups in the family or even three groups undermining each other or hating each other or sworn each other. Let's see what you can do: 1.When you are Alone versus the whole group just stay away from them before you  more hurt or even killed.It is better not to communicate to them.If it does happen do it once per year or  in funeral times or stay at the back in ceremonies times. Don't be Father Christmas or Mother Teresa.Even if you can help them,you will remain an "enemy". 2.When you belong to one group. Obviously there are unwritten rules. Find the true characters in your group because when there is a "sellout" who blows fire,then the division will be perpetuated. 3.Three groups Obviously there will be a strong group and the weakest group.Find out from these groups which has the least common values try to bring some of  the members to your group...

Originally, families were the institutions of love, unity and empowerment.In this Century that had become an opposite.It also depends where you come from,the family composition and it's foundation plays a big role to your life. Some of the family problems practice carry over to the children and generations especially when you live in the same area. Some problems are underground from even from the parents and relatives of which some are  open and sworn.This disunity starts from the early ages where sometimes is passed down by the parents to their children with an aim of fearing their unity which may jeopardize their future grip. There is also another type who want unity in the family so that they can protect the "weak' or vulnerable ones so that the parents and others within their circles can benefit.Anyone who goes out of this line will  be "punished" and disowned. When you progress in front of your family members the following jealous  may erupt 1.because of you...

I have said many times the family is the institution.It actual prepares us for the  outside world in the following stages: 0-5 years We are taken by our families like security, food and shelter. 0-6 years The school years starts.Sometimes it starts from 4 to 5 years.It is when the  contact of  outside world starts from peer to peer. 7-12 years As the years passby the child is exposed to move circle people.Police,Clinics in nurses, bigger shops or mall.The experience. 13-20 years You will meet other  people  who come from other families brought in different ways.The spirit of tolerance and accommodation is supposed to be taught at home. 21 and Above At this time you an adult. You know of family you want.

I once, visited  a castle of  Ants near the River.As I went nearer and touched the twig my hand was severely attacked.  I guess those black  ants had a poison. My skin is dark and immediately 1 had red Spots. I was able to move some ants but the two red spots became more and more  visible. I suspect they had a poison. Which  lessons did I learn  from their home? 1.Unity 2.As I partially break the castle,there were "rooms" 3.The Castle was  built out of mud. 4.Protection What about we humans ? 1.Some family  are not united. 2.The Ants "filled" their rooms on their own while we humans look for someone to buy   furniture  and fill for us. 3.Everyone contributed in building  the Castle. 4.The  Ants protected their "homestead" with  jealousy  5.Everyone was responsible for protect  6.The Ants were busy going up and down

The Families  were united which translated   to the country  unity.There were very few countries  which were greedy. Lets find out about the today's families: 1.Broken Families. 2.Economy misery 3.Cultural & Traditional  bonds broken. 4.Interference of technology. 5.Churches are no more caring 1.Broken Families  The rate of divorce is very high. Each couple regrets why they marry. 2.Economy misery The Economy  is down and it affects our job and finances.People are failing to just the present  circumstances. 3.Cultural & Traditional  bonds broken Nowadays there's nothing which binds the family.The Head of family  does not respect the family culture 4.Interference  of Technology The Media is bringing the tendency of free living freedom in a wrong  way. 5.Churches  are no more caring  Churches are no more caring for the poor and the family sessions  have decreased

I sat down  and watched other families attitudes towards the neighborhood and around the communities. What I have discovered? 1.Good Families  2.Bad Families  3.Rude Families  1.Good Families  There are self respecting families. The main indicators are humble children, greeting with respect. 2.Bad Families  These are disgraced families. Children drink liquor in front of strategies. Again these give a question about their families.These families are either loose families or no formal education. 3.Rude Families  Everyone is rude here. From the parent to the child,grand child. They disrespect everybody who they know and don't know. Some of their  members are jailbird. Actually they are not fit to stay with  communities.