The Most Brilliant/Fool in the Family

 Your stature is acquired when you were  born.So we are not the same in the Family.The leadership in the Family is  nurtured  by good responsibilities  which they are in favor of the family.How do we know whether someone  is brilliant  or not?

He/She

1.preaches unity.                                                          2.donates his/her time positively towards the Family.                                                                            3.does come with solutions to any problem.          4.views are honest.                                                      5.shows a degree of Respect.                                      6.avails himself/herself  in times of need.              7.loves everyone.                                                          8.has a spirit of Forgiveness.

What about a fool one?

He/She

1.preaches disunity.                                                    2.does have the time for the family                          3.enjoys disputes and fuels them                              4.views segreggatively.                                                5.does not respect some members of the family even the norms of the family.                                    6.disappears in time of  needs.                                  7.loves some,hate some or hate everybody.            8.does not have the heart of forgiveness



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