Sense of Belonging nofisa1

We all belong from different families. Love,caring are the foundation  of survival and prosperity.When we marry,we bring two  families  which brings different together.The marriage needs commitment and trust whether being single or adopted.

If one comes from a weak family,he/she becomes weak in Life.Here are the steps  which makes a strong family:

1.Togetherness
After work,holidays,weekends are the good times for  the family  unity.Visiting the relatives can be ideal  but please know the type  of people whom you visit because  some sow  a serious  division  to your family.Don't fetch  the devil which will talk some nice destructive  things to your peaceful  family.You know them.
2.Cordial Behaviour
Your language  actions,anger, happiness,drunk or sober should  not be hang around the family  especially  the  children  and strangers.
3.Line of Communication 
There is a certain Line Of Communication  such Greeting in the Morning or Afternoon.That makes one to relax.
4.Admiring your family  activity
It can be from Creche,school achievement, your partner whether working or not working.Admiring your family  in Sports,Praying together  etc.
5.Don't be a "Dictator"
Be a Listener and analyze  put more open arguments.
Next time:Types Of Families
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