An Odd Member in the family

Every family is got an odd Member or a distant  odd relative.All the ages are included.The  Odd Member may be influenced by:

1.Family Relationship.                                          2.School Situation                                                3.Friendship.                                                          4.Loose individual.                                                5.Community Acceptance/Rejection.                6.Religious/Irregilous revolution.                      7.To be indifferent.

1.Family Relationship.                                        No one is born with odd behaviour.It is just an acquired behaviour.I believe someone had inflicted the bad behaviour.

2.School Situation.                                              The schools have direct or indirect  influence to our children.Acually,the schools are the mirror   of the Community.Thats why in the past the parents chose the schools very carefully.A School may build or destroy your child.

3.Friendship.                                                           I prefer that you must know the friends of your child.Just interview them informal which includes how do they see their future.Children answer in an honest way.Such interviews should take place in in the intervals.

4.Loose  Individual.                                              We must not forget that there are "loose heads" it takes a great effort to guide such a child.It will include the responsible family.

5.Community/acceptance/rejection.                 A Community may show Love or Hatred.It is important to know  how does your community accept you.It is equally important not to bad mouth your community because that will  change the behaviour of your child.

6.Religous/Irreligious                                          Your Religion/Irreligious may sway the behaviour of your child.Just take the walking of a Lion.The Cubs trod on the footprints of their mother.Just the same with us.

7.To be indifferent.                                              Undermining openly  the other family members or the Communities result that your child to be indifferent.

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