Which family do you belong to?

Families produce different types of People.Each individual  is expected  to
adhere to the family  values.Unfortunately 
some members deviate.

The Aim of this post is to make  you understand  your family.If you are too radical according  to them,they will take  a
radical  solutions to you which will openly
confront you.Some will use underground 
measures of which you wouldn't  like them.

Usually disputes in the family arise because of:
1.Parent/Guardian  Treatment.
2.Bullying
3.Unequal  Treatment 
4.Family Secrets
5.Family Religion/Habits
6.Fixed Values
1.Parent/Guadian Treatment
Most of tje families  don't  love  their  children equally.
Some problems  came from the children 
themselves like stubbornness acting slow
when they are doing chores.another  reason some children  were conceived  by
mistake so there's no love  for them
Some Children are loved by the unwanted 
members or foreigners who are regarded as enemies.

2.Bullying
Children  do " bull" each other. Usually those  who are mischievous  have "sweet
words" when they are  reported.That cause  division.

3.Unequal  Achievements 
Some children will do very well at school or in sports or winning competitions.That
child will be highly liked by the parents and
siblings because he/she brings money.

4.Family Secrets
Some families have secrets which some may lead to arrest.If the Family suspects
there is a "scrupulous" child who spreads
"Big" secrets,that child might be send to a
far Relative or to Family Friends as a
Punishment or even killed or disabled.

5.Family Religion/Habits
Some Families have Iron hand Religion.A
Child who does not go along with the Family,he/she might his/her Rights can be taken away such ad not getting enough
food or he/she can have limited hours and
to have many chores inside and outside

6.Fixed Values/Routines
Some families make it a norm that your first salary must be given to the Parents or to the Older Sibling if the Parents are no more.Some families  dictate  who to marry or People  from  their Culture.

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