Building of a Quality Family

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The qualities of the positive family are
1.Love
2.Respect
3.Unity
4.Family members tolerate each other.
5.They know their strengths and weaknesses and compliment each other.
6.They understand each other.
7.The final bond is Unity for Good Purpose not to hurt other people.

What has disintegrated  the families?
1.External influences.
2.Jealousy.
3.Laziness
4.Undermining
5.Petty Pride
6.Disrespect
7.Dishonesty
8.Lies

The Big Question is can we amend our families?
-Yes if we can go to basics like Respect and Honesty.
-If we take our families as  Institution where the  natural position  of every member is taken serious like the Child should know what to say to the other members and build the relationship in child perspective simple means not to meddle or involve on the adult matters, and do the child duties likewise with the adult.

-Proper  family leaders who live by an example meaning behaving responsibly
by making home a happy place,providing the necessities like enough food,transport,
paying electricity, water and the rent.Moreover Watch his/her words in front of the family members privately or openly.He/She must control his/her Anger and too much excitement.Avoid lies.
Admit,forgive other family members.

-Forgive the mistakes of the other family members as he/she expects to be forgiven.

-Develop the old concept of helping one another by covering up poverty giving ideas how to get a job.

Who could start building a the Ideal Family,?
-Anyone.
- A child living by example.
-Loving mother
-An honest husband 
-A smiling member

Who could help the family building?
1.Schools
2.Communities
3.NGOs
4.Governments
5.UN

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