Family Values

There are still few people who protect the names of their families.At the same time there are those who let their families down.Everything you do you 1.Revive the History  of your Family. 2.Your action upgrades or degrades your familym 3.Which are known families? Under Automatives -Ford -Mitsubishi -Mahindra -Suzuki -Nissan Under Politics  -Mandela -Ford -Kennedy Under Traditions -Senzangakhona -Shaka -Madzikane -Queen Modjadji -Ngungunyane We have many avenues where we could make our families Great: -Social Media -Technology  -Science Research (Traditional medicine application) -Giving free parttimejobsseekers.blogspot.com (and Earn) -Blogging -Finances -Education  -Professorship -Writing soapies -Music How long is a family name kept in the  history of mankind? It depends on how - Big the legacy was created. -long the legacy has been kept. -helpful or  how useless the legacy had been kept. -how many people who were affected by your family legacy? Where...

Any citizen, family member is brought up,studies and in some countries they share their finances  with the siblings,relatives and even to the country through taxation. In Africa we have what we call Black Tax where you are expected to "feed financially and the distant family.That will be taken as 1.Responsibility 2.Love 3.Caring 4.Nurturing and it brings the 1.Unity 2.Togetherness 3.Appreciation 4.Progressive If that does not happen 1.Enmity is created. 2.More invasion in your privacy  3.Your life becomes more difficult  4.All the methods of exterminating your life is explored. This does not only happen only in Africa. Although the other races are doing it in the civil way there are certain  expectations which are 1.Hiring the family member to the Business be family business or private business. 2.Promote family members. 3.Share the material resources like cars and  apartment freely. 4.Act unfairly to others in favour of the  family favour. In turn the Owne...

I have seen the Big and small families and lose individuals,there is a big difference.Firstly,let's see who makes the good family.Anyone who comes for the mutual benefit of the family should have the following characteristics: 1.Understanding the family members. 2.Mutuak interest. 3.Love. 4.Tolerance. 5.Happiness and Joy. 6.Unity. 7.Helping each other. 8.Appreciating one another. 9.Uplifting each  other. 10.Sharing 1.Understanding each other  The  basis of two people who understand each other is critical important.Before the two partners  come together must have  a satisfactory understanding of each other. 2.Mutual Interests Mutual Interests will be the common interests or participation in the family activities.Each family is got groups for instance there  Outgoers  who must come together. 3.Love Love is the "cement" of all the actions. It is from within, voluntary,free and sometimes it's blind. 4.Tolerance There's no perfect human being. Tolerance mea...

<script async src="https://pagead2.googlesyndication.com/pagead/js/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-5675963239963028 crossorigin="anonymous"></script> The above expression is for Advertisers. You may read below: The qualities of the positive family are 1.Love 2.Respect 3.Unity 4.Family members tolerate each other. 5.They know their strengths and weaknesses and compliment each other. 6.They understand each other. 7.The final bond is Unity for Good Purpose not to hurt other people. What has disintegrated  the families? 1.External influences. 2.Jealousy. 3.Laziness 4.Undermining 5.Petty Pride 6.Disrespect 7.Dishonesty 8.Lies The Big Question is can we amend our families? -Yes if we can go to basics like Respect and Honesty. -If we take our families as  Institution where the  natural position  of every member is taken serious like the Child should know what to say to the other members and build the relationship in child perspective simple means not to meddle or i...

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We all belong to a Big Family of humanbeings. 1.Like  it or not your relative are getting the Government Grants. 2.These are not the Government money,it belonged to us the Taxpayers.The food, cars, houses,roads we are paying some money which is called Tax. 3.So,there is no FREE money. 4.The subsidy is paid  by the Taxpayer. A Taxpayer helps in lowering the Crime. More Police is hired. We are a Big Family,Family of Taxpayer.

What do you do when your family goes nuts? It may happen that the whole family is against you alone or you are two groups in the family or even three groups undermining each other or hating each other or sworn each other. Let's see what you can do: 1.When you are Alone versus the whole group just stay away from them before you  more hurt or even killed.It is better not to communicate to them.If it does happen do it once per year or  in funeral times or stay at the back in ceremonies times. Don't be Father Christmas or Mother Teresa.Even if you can help them,you will remain an "enemy". 2.When you belong to one group. Obviously there are unwritten rules. Find the true characters in your group because when there is a "sellout" who blows fire,then the division will be perpetuated. 3.Three groups Obviously there will be a strong group and the weakest group.Find out from these groups which has the least common values try to bring some of  the members to your group...

Originally, families were the institutions of love, unity and empowerment.In this Century that had become an opposite.It also depends where you come from,the family composition and it's foundation plays a big role to your life. Some of the family problems practice carry over to the children and generations especially when you live in the same area. Some problems are underground from even from the parents and relatives of which some are  open and sworn.This disunity starts from the early ages where sometimes is passed down by the parents to their children with an aim of fearing their unity which may jeopardize their future grip. There is also another type who want unity in the family so that they can protect the "weak' or vulnerable ones so that the parents and others within their circles can benefit.Anyone who goes out of this line will  be "punished" and disowned. When you progress in front of your family members the following jealous  may erupt 1.because of you...

I have said many times the family is the institution.It actual prepares us for the  outside world in the following stages: 0-5 years We are taken by our families like security, food and shelter. 0-6 years The school years starts.Sometimes it starts from 4 to 5 years.It is when the  contact of  outside world starts from peer to peer. 7-12 years As the years passby the child is exposed to move circle people.Police,Clinics in nurses, bigger shops or mall.The experience. 13-20 years You will meet other  people  who come from other families brought in different ways.The spirit of tolerance and accommodation is supposed to be taught at home. 21 and Above At this time you an adult. You know of family you want.

I once, visited  a castle of  Ants near the River.As I went nearer and touched the twig my hand was severely attacked.  I guess those black  ants had a poison. My skin is dark and immediately 1 had red Spots. I was able to move some ants but the two red spots became more and more  visible. I suspect they had a poison. Which  lessons did I learn  from their home? 1.Unity 2.As I partially break the castle,there were "rooms" 3.The Castle was  built out of mud. 4.Protection What about we humans ? 1.Some family  are not united. 2.The Ants "filled" their rooms on their own while we humans look for someone to buy   furniture  and fill for us. 3.Everyone contributed in building  the Castle. 4.The  Ants protected their "homestead" with  jealousy  5.Everyone was responsible for protect  6.The Ants were busy going up and down

The Families  were united which translated   to the country  unity.There were very few countries  which were greedy. Lets find out about the today's families: 1.Broken Families. 2.Economy misery 3.Cultural & Traditional  bonds broken. 4.Interference of technology. 5.Churches are no more caring 1.Broken Families  The rate of divorce is very high. Each couple regrets why they marry. 2.Economy misery The Economy  is down and it affects our job and finances.People are failing to just the present  circumstances. 3.Cultural & Traditional  bonds broken Nowadays there's nothing which binds the family.The Head of family  does not respect the family culture 4.Interference  of Technology The Media is bringing the tendency of free living freedom in a wrong  way. 5.Churches  are no more caring  Churches are no more caring for the poor and the family sessions  have decreased

I sat down  and watched other families attitudes towards the neighborhood and around the communities. What I have discovered? 1.Good Families  2.Bad Families  3.Rude Families  1.Good Families  There are self respecting families. The main indicators are humble children, greeting with respect. 2.Bad Families  These are disgraced families. Children drink liquor in front of strategies. Again these give a question about their families.These families are either loose families or no formal education. 3.Rude Families  Everyone is rude here. From the parent to the child,grand child. They disrespect everybody who they know and don't know. Some of their  members are jailbird. Actually they are not fit to stay with  communities.

If you look at the animals  are raised up in the same way.A Lion Family teaches their family to attack herbivores skillfully if they want food.The skills  of hiding, moving, eyeing the food. What I have gathered also the Lions  eliminate any Tiger in their sight.The painful side is that the cubs found with the Lioness will be killed.The male lion cannot raise  the "step cubs" With us the human beings,we are influenced by our Culture,family  habits which differ from family to family.The  Question of Finance. There also "dangerous families "in the communities.Such families rob,commit murder and abuse the members of their Communities.

There are three types   of families: 1.Common Behaviour Family  2.Semi Behaviour  Family  3.Loose Family  4.Family Saviour 1.Common Behaviour  Family It is either  they are religious,cultural, criminal or educated.So this type  of family is got a certain way of living  which is homogeneous. 2.Semi Behaviour Family  The family may be divided into two ideological,cultural,material wise or even self-esteem.Their unit is diverse. 3.Loose Family This type of family ,everyone do what he/ she likes.You will find  a family member  leaving early in the morning and coming late in the evening.No one cares.No one ask any question. 4.Family Saviour One member become a voluntarily  or involuntarily  sacrificial lamb.This Saviour helps the family   either  financially,food or any emergency.They can  be in a group or individual. 5.Family  Troublemaker  This one steals,break houses,kills people in th...

Such a Person becomes a nuisance to the Community,Relatives,at Work,Government, Friends if any. Community  This Person believes  that is ever right and is got a vengeance  and revenge of which may be the Community  is directly or indirectly responsible  of. Relatives No one belongs from the  space. We either see that Person as a "Refugee" but the common sense there is or was a Family which he/she belong to. At Work Laziness,Arrogance,Jealousy  are the fruits of the Person  who avoided a family. Some prospective  Employers put a questionnare about the family background  about the  Employee. Government  The strategy  lies,bad mood, undermining, having secretive  deals all being active once one comes to Government.

Families produce different types of People.Each individual  is expected  to adhere to the family  values.Unfortunately  some members deviate. The Aim of this post is to make  you understand  your family.If you are too radical according  to them,they will take  a radical  solutions to you which will openly confront you.Some will use underground  measures of which you wouldn't  like them. Usually disputes in the family arise because of: 1.Parent/Guardian  Treatment. 2.Bullying 3.Unequal  Treatment  4.Family Secrets 5.Family Religion/Habits 6.Fixed Values 1.Parent/Guadian Treatment Most of tje families  don't  love  their  children equally. Some problems  came from the children  themselves like stubbornness acting slow when they are doing chores.another  reason some children  were conceived  by mistake so there's no love  for them Some Children are loved by the unwanted...

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A strong family will empower the child for present and future life, handling of problems.You can be a single or  both parents.At the same time  the family can destroy the present and future of the child. Unfortunately or fortunately our times have produced good and bad families.No one is born a Criminal or full hatred.At the  same time you cannot blame families.Children's friend can be good or bad. The bad friends are seeping slow to the minds of young ones,where they present themselves as superhero, intelligent,knowing too much and bring the innocent child to the board. Poverty can be responsible but stable or wealthy life can also contribute. All in all it is important to listen everything which the child do.What are his/her hero's in the TV or who is usually in the mouth of the child.

She would like more arguements.The "superiority" of her Dad haunts her.Her implanted nature is -She lost a trust to Men. _She would not like to be "controlled" -She's got a revenge and avenge to all the men. Marrying from a Cluster -She/He does not forget where he/she comes from. - A loyal amount is send to her/his family openly or secretly or both. -The first 10 years is tough until his/her siblings become financial independent. -To her/his family is an insurance. Marrying from the balanced families. -It is logic and safe to marry a Person from the same level. Briefly,the educated should marry an educated person. Cross culture may be good or bad just like marrying a person of the same origin including same language. A Divorcee should marry the Divorced.

There should be compromise  for both families if they want to succeed in their relationship.Let me bring perhaps the forgotten type of the family which you are married to.You belong to one of the following family: 1.Unique  Marriages Family Cross: Marrying a bridegroom from bride's single mother Family. What do you expect? -Too much saving. -A bride dictates .This happened after a year. -unleashing anger if the main promise has not been fulfilled like not buying a house or a car or living from hand to mouth -Too much consultation from the family and friends. Marrying a groom from bridegroom single mother Family -Too much suspicions like why you don't come at home at specific time.You are even about the type of friends you have -She wants a total "new Life". _she believes that she is totally free. Marrying a bridegroom from a single Dad -His father was his role model. -She wants that his family must live like his Dad _Sporadic violence if reasoning fails. _He is a Woma...